So @someguy123 of @privex finally was able to fix some issues that all of EOSIO was having due to EOS cpu crunch, but now Telos and my telos SAND token gateway is working, for both deposits and withdrawing!
Just go to https://Steem-engine.com and select TELOS SAND from the drop down menu to withdraw sand for telos sand.
and you can see it here in SQRL wallet (or in scatter)
Now You can actually withdraw telos SAND to your telos account
and come to SAND telegram to discuss the new listing of SAND TELOS on Newdex (so we have SAND listed on EOS and TELOS trading zones https://t.me/sandiegocoin